Relearning Attention

This year, summer’s been so warm, and has lasted so long into autumn, that many of us are dazed. Winter and the fast pace of work are hitting us harder than ever before. At times like these, we are savaged by multiple attacks on our attention. The pace escalates, until we feel ragged, incapable of the true, deep concentration that lets us live as the creative people we are. When this feeling strikes, we can turn to great artists or writers to help us cleanse our tattered minds and relearn attention.

At night I gaze at you …

I waken new, newly clothed,

Washed by your hands, laundress…


Pablo Neruda, Nobel Laureate
from Ode to the Moon of the Sea

These lines leave me with a deep sense of calm. Yet Neruda’s life was almost constantly turbulent. He was often threatened with imprisonment, even death. A poet must find a quality of attention that goes deeper, sees further than ordinary life. For years I wondered how a political fugitive, an exile, could achieve this. Yet today we can identify with those on the run in a new way. As never before, social media and constant online availability threaten concentration, privacy and the ability to think as an individual. How one can relearn attention, and cleanse electronic or political waste from the mind? The answer has become vital. Below, I share some real life experiences, followed by Five Ways to Cleanse your Mind.

I believe that Neruda’s work can teach us much more than how to write well. As his relationships with government, high society and clergy shattered, he forged a new connection. In the quote above, he describes “being washed by your hands, laundress”. He is not writing about a woman. What sustains him is a profound relationship with the world around him. I believe that in the same way, focusing on Nature can restore our attention, can help our minds reclaim the territory we have lost.

If we recognize that the territory of our personal, thoughtful minds is being eroded, we can take steps for reclaiming this place.

For example, my very Internet-active daughter recently mentioned that she was taking a hiatus from social media. I was surprised, but know of several other people who are doing the same. Many are taking a month-long spiritual journey through the Camino area of Portugal, and cite Internet silence as one of their key reasons for choosing this (pilgrims in these remote mountains must adopt a state of non-connectivity). In Michael Harris’s recent book, The End of Absence, the author describes a similar experience. After noticing how brief and distracted his encounters with friends had become, he took a timed vow to switch off from constant online communication.

My own personal ‘media cleanse’ happened for similar reasons, but in a time before Facebook, Twitter et al. I was working in public relations for the government. Each day began with a flood of information. I had to read, watch or listen to every media item that involved my employer, a provincial ministry. At first, I found it exciting, but it was not long before I began to sense that attention is finite. It is a skill that becomes blunt, like a knife from overuse.

Gradually I noticed my brain closing up, a kind of defense mechanism in self-protection from the daily onslaught. Often, I had to address issues by writing a media release or a speech for the Minister. I found my responses began to yield less and less of my own thought and energy. They became minimal, rushed, rote reactions, like many of the tweets of today.

The deadening of my attentiveness slowly spread to affect all aspects of my life. I shut down, not just at the mind level, but emotionally and sensually as well. I stuck it out for financial reasons, but I was moving through my life like a non-participant. When I was finally declared surplus as part of a large job-cutting move, my attention span was almost non-existent.

It was like stepping off a treadmill. For the first time in 15 years, I had the freedom of my own mind. But what would I do with it? I could barely function.

My body was giving me the answer. I craved sleep and silence, the silence of the mind. I cancelled the TV subscription and stopped reading all but the shortest non-fiction pieces. I read Ted Hughes’ poem, Do not Pick up the Telephone, and unplugged mine.

As with any type of cleanse, I felt depleted. Yet one morning I woke up with a surge of energy, a powerful hunger for the world. I went out barefoot, because every pair of shoes I owned had heels too high for striding. No longer chained to a desk or screen, I wanted to know what was outside. To my amazement, everything was beautiful. I walked as far as I could, then came home to write what I’d felt.

Since then, I have begun every day the same way, except that I wear hiking boots now. Even in bad weather, I never regret the outing. It trains my eye for distance and stirs activity in my brain. I’m better able to drive, read, write and teach. I do use a cellphone and the Internet, but I take breaks at least every two hours to find silence (also to remember I have limbs to move!). My body led my mind out of the trap and I might need that kind of help again.

The blunting effect is not restricted to professions involving the media. Burnt-out young mothers and teachers need to remind their charges: “Stop calling my name all the time! You might wear it out.” Medics, lifeguards and first responders are plagued by time-consuming, often invalid demands. Unnecessary claims on our attention diminish us, and render us less effective.

Five Ways to Cleanse your Mind

1) Recognize that your mind is a territory, subject to invasion.

  • Be aware of the amount of time you spend “surfing the Net” and messaging.
  • Are these people important to you? Do you really want their beliefs to become your own?

2) Guard your personal thoughts as you would any money or property.

  • Start keeping a record of your own ideas and how much time you spend enhancing them.
  • Shift the balance of your time from downloading the opinions of others to creating your own response.

3) Recognize that emotion is a direct path to your brain. Don’t let others use it for contagion.

  • Every break counts. Try to stop the rush of outside thoughts whenever you can.
  • Make the most of down time, however short. 

4) Claim your right to silence (and media silence), longer and more frequently.

  • Close doors on noisy roommates or texting-bullies.
  • Be selective about what enters your attention.

5) Find Nature wherever you can.

  • Live beings, even the presence of plants, can help us reclaim the original territory our minds have lost.
  • Work to balance the virtual environments you inhabit with genuine, live habitats and real people.